your First Time
What advice would You give to those looking to worship a Mistress for the first time?
First, be aware that a Mistress is not an escort or a prostitute; there are plenty of people offering these services elsewhere, so if that is what you are looking for DO NOT waste a Pro-Domme’s time by enquiring after Her services. It is insulting.
Do your research; use the Internet, magazines, etc and draw up a shortlist of Dominas who attract you and areas you are interested in. Find out what She takes pleasure in, what Her limits are and whether the two of you are likely to be compatible. Before you schedule a session make sure you are fully prepared to turn your fantasies into reality. Once the door to Her world shuts, reality stays outside.
Make sure you are precise and detailed in your communications; explain what you hope to gain from a session, what your interests are, etc. Don’t be embarrassed to discuss your fantasies and be totally honest; it can help give your Mistress an insight into your thoughts and develop a more trusting and mutually beneficial relationship.
Don’t be surprised if the tribute for a Pro-Domme seems expensive; all that equipment (plus outfits, shoes, boots, etc) doesn’t come cheap you know! People often think that professional Mistresses have appointments lined up back to back every day but this is simply not the case; at least not for Me. I limit My sessions & won’t play with just anyone, preferring to build a good relationship with My boys & therefore meaning a much better experience for U/us both. Sessions can often be mentally demanding as well as physically draining, so to try & jam in as many sessions as possible would mean a reduction of quality of play & My enjoyment (and in turn My sub’s enjoyment) – and I am a perfectionist so that simply won’t do!!!
Be mindful of your Mistress’ time; like any other professional Her time is valuable and She will not be impressed if you waste it. Do NOT make an appointment unless you are sure that you can attend and if you can’t then advise your Mistress at the earliest opportunity. Simply not turning up will not be accepted and will most likely ensure you are blacklisted and refused to book again.
Make sure that your Mistress conducts sessions according to “Safe, Sane & Consensual” practices and will agree a “safe word” for use during a session. I use the traffic light system. Green means – all ok, carry on. Amber – I am close to my limits but ok for now. Red – stop, please.
Be polite and respectful at all times!
Mistress Vixen is intelligent, sophisticated and charming, with a wicked sense of humour which She loves to indulge at Her slaves’ expense. Naturally Dominant, She exudes a sensuality and eroticism that you sense as soon as you enter Her presence: spellbound, you’ll leave the everyday world behind – you’re in Hers now. A soft smile to lull you into a false sense of security, then the single word “Strip” to remind you of your place – naked at Her feet – and you’ll hurry to obey. Her tone is always measured; She doesn’t need to raise Her voice for you’ll surrender willingly: your body and mind belong to Her now and within minutes you’ll have revealed your innermost secrets and fantasies, which She’s only too happy to exploit for Her own amusement. How? It’s impossible to guess: She may be warm and compassionate, cruel and sadistic or anywhere in between, intuitively knowing the right mood for the moment. Her wickedly creative imagination is boundless and She has an insatiable appetite for exploring kinks in ways that are as spontaneous and thrilling as they are unpredictable. She’ll play with your mind as well as your body, savouring your confused reactions at the conflicting feelings of pain and pleasure, aversion and adoration; Her intoxicating energy will leave you exhausted yet yearning for the adrenaline rush that only She can provide. Every session is unique, a mental and physical adventure tailored to your darkest desires and beyond your wildest dreams: She will tempt you, tease you, torment you and take you to the very edge, treating your limits with respect while encouraging you to go further. Are you ready to take that step?
Applicants are drawn to Her Like moths to a flame but Her standards are high and only the most sincere are considered. She demands – and accepts – nothing short of excellence from Her slaves, whom She treats with courtesy, trust, and discretion. She expects the same from them and is uncompromising in Her treatment of the disrespectful.
D: Don’t disrespect your Mistress.
O: Only submissive men/women/couples/sissies need call.
M: Make it a point to be on time.
I: If you need to cancel, please be polite & call.
N: Never ever expect to put your needs 1st. (Your Mistress is #1.)
A: Always leave tribute in plain sight at BEGINNING of session.
T: Try to top from the bottom?! Yeah, you’ll get punished.
R: Remember: No sex ever-I’m not a prostitute or escort!
I: If it gets too freaky for you- Yell “Red!!!” (lol)
X: Xtra special care & lower tributes given to repeat clients!
I offer a vast range of session activities, including, but not limited to the following:
Sensual to Severe with Limit Exploration.
Fantasy Abductions. Interrogation. Captivity. Role Play. Public Humiliation.
Forced Worship. Training. Servitude. Humiliation. Degradation. Verbal Abuse.
Financial Domination. Shopping. Pampering. Spoiling. Trips. Travelling. Events.
Fetishes. Leather. Latex. Corsets. Pantyhose. Fishnets. Thigh Highs. Stilettos. Boots.
Cuckolding. Chastity. Long-term Key Holding.
Psychological Domination. D/S Power Play.
Corporal. Single Tail. Caning. Paddles. Riding Crops.
Bondage. Predicament. Mummification. Sensation Play.
Foot Fetish. Leg, Ass and Body Worship.
X-Dressing. Sissification. Feminization. Slut Training. Transformation.
Medical Exams. Electrical Play with TENS or Violet Wand
C and B tease/torture. Nipple torture
***My Hard Limits = Showers of any color, scat, blood, age play (I’m not your Momma!), animal play, I no longer do needle play, trampling (go see a tiny asian doll for that)***
Dungeon Hours: Monday-Friday 10am-6pm, Sat 10-2 (Saturday appointments must be booked 24 hours in advance!) I prefer 24-hour notice on all appointments but in case of “emergency” (lol) I will accept 3 hours notice.
*Dungeon Donations = $150 hr. your first time, $100 hr. after.*
Expect Dungeon to be closed on Major Holidays, like 4th of July.
Conveniently located between Charlotte/Atlanta & Asheville/Columbia in northern Spartanburg County near the Hwy 11 & Hwy 221 intersection.